A round-up of September is not going to feature much this month as I had a little blip and didn’t do as much as I had wanted to on this blog. I actually forgot about doing a round-up post at all until today! lol But I wanted to wrap up the month by showing you which posts were the most popular as well as give anyone who hasn’t seen some of my previous posts the chance to catch up.
There were three top posts this month but by far the most popular is one I put out recently which was for a classic book with a feline twist.
Romeow & Juliet is a fun picture book for any ages based on the classic play ‘Romeo & Juliet’, however the entire book features cats rather than humans and the illustrations are simply stunning! The review has had a lot of shares on the web so well worth looking at if you have time.
The second most popular blog post was my little post about my return after taking a break from the blog called Hello…Anyone Miss Me? Oddly my personal post about how I’d been feeling down about my blog and things in general had a lot of views and even shares. I felt better after having a chat with several people from posting that post and it goes to prove that sharing really is important and helps if you’re ever depressed.
The third most popular posts were both a book haul post and another review. The review is for Yuki Means Happiness a book I found interesting and much darker than it’s blurb or cover would have you believe! Well worth checking out if you like modern cultural books.
My book haul posts have been doing better than expected recently with around the same number of views for both Walker Books September’s book haul post and a new Bookbridgr one featuring those animal inspired classics. Look out for another book haul post from Walker Books about to come up – this month with new Christmas books and Christmas inspired gifts! 😀
I’d also like to share this month’s poetry which got quite a few views. I’m afraid I only wrote two poems this month and haven’t had much time or inspiration to write more but hopefully that will change especially with Christmas and Halloween inspiring some fun poetry. There were two serious poems however, one light and one dark. The lighthearted poem I do hope you will enjoy, even if it’s just for the picture of a zonkey (check it out!), is Different Is Fine.
As usual the dark poetry got more views with Why Did You? featuring a particularly difficult subject that is still a serious problem in our world but that’s considered a little taboo to even talk about.
October’s going to be a far busier month and I have a lot of exciting things to share with you. I have a new book haul post to share with you this week as well as of course plenty of books I have yet to share from last month’s set. I’ve decided to try and do something for Halloween at the end of the month, even if it’s as little as a spooky poem.
As well as poetry and book reviews I hope to share an article or two this month. I have an article that’s been bugging me, sitting in my drafts for ages and I just need to read back through it and give it a bit of editing before it’s done.
Apart from all that I hope to just enjoy getting to know you guys more and visiting as many of you as I can. I’m not able to constantly be online and visiting blogs is something I can only do every few days rather than everyday, as I’m just too swamped with everything in my offline life at the moment. The run up to Christmastime is a busy one for me and the next few months look like they’ll be busy for me although I hope you’ll enjoy what I do manage to post out 🙂
I hope you’ll all want to keep reading this blog and the content I put out. You are the reason I keep enjoying blogging. I might still blog if I had no audience but it’s so much more rewarding to know others are reading.
So a big thank you to you all for following this blog and I hope you have a great October!
Did you have any highlights for September? What are you looking forward to in October? Please let me know I’d love to chat with you 🙂 You can also soon find me in these places:
Hello everyone. I’m not sure if anyone’s missed me or even noticed my absence but it’s true, I’ve been away for a while and the reasons aren’t as great as I would like to pretend they are. You see, quite a few things came up in my personal life and while I don’t really want to talk publicly about what’s been going on, all the little problems I’ve been having suddenly led me to feeling pretty low.
When I feel down over things it’s easy for me to recover but my go-to thing when depression’s on the horizon or trying to kick in is to withdraw. I’m not in a bad place at the moment, in fact I’ve been able to bounce back out of it quite well but it’s just the thing I tend to do. I am sorry though to everyone for not staying in touch, I hope I haven’t upset anyone with my absence
To be honest it wasn’t just my own personal issues which made me feel down, it was also this blog, or rather the things that I’ve been receiving through this blog. While I thought having a blog filled with my favourite bird, the wonderful peacock, would be very special, the fact is that I received quite a few twitter messages from very disturbing or disturbed people (a lot of it sex related 😦 ). I began to wonder if I should even keep this blog going, considering how many strange messages I got from these ‘people’.
If I’m honest, I’m still wavering a bit on what to do. The blog’s views have plummeted to almost none for several weeks now and although I never expected the following I had on my old blog (Happymeerkatreviews), I can’t lie that I do feel a little sad that I didn’t manage to connect with more people from there, especially some I called friends. The low views also make me feel bad for the publishers who have sent me their books in return for exposure (good or bad) as their books clearly aren’t receiving much viewing on this blog at the moment.
I have made a promise to myself and this blog, and of course you guys if you are still around, to get through this strange slightly sad feeling and to push past it as I don’t want to be sad for my own birthday (in November) and I don’t want to dampen the upcoming Xmas (and maybe Halloween) spirit which will hopefully be felt on this blog.
So I hope you will forgive my wavering and my slight blip and want to keep reading this blog and the things I put here. I do have lots of reviews I’ve written but just haven’t placed up here yet, including all ten Anthony Browne books from the collection. I’ll put them up now and hopefully get a new post going everyday for you too as well as visit some blogs as soon as I am able. I’ll also spend the day replying to all your messages. Thank you everyone and I hope you’ll want to stick around ❤
August’s highlights and plans for September plus what happened on Saturday 26th.
Saturday was not a good day to travel. I had to join the mad Bank holiday rush of people and decided to opt for the train as the best option for travel. However it wasn’t a good day, not for a lot of people, especially those that died.
When I got to the train station it turned out all trains were cancelled. there was an accident on a station further up the track, somebody had been hit by a train. Later this ‘hit by a train’ announcement changed to ‘fatality’. Train lines to and from London were eventually re-opened but it took several hours before anyone could travel anywhere.
To add to the travel misery, several train stations are closed for a week for major works and so all trains, even direct ones were extra slow as they all had to use the same few stations (rather than ending at several different London stations as is the norm).
When I finally arrived in Victoria Train Station it was already late and although my journey took me further north out of London, there was an announcement at the station that somebody somewhere on the Brighton line was hit by a train (whether deceased or not I still don’t know)
There was at least one more fatality on a train line somewhere towards Southampton on the same day, involving another person hit by a train; and on the roads a major accident on a motorway resulted in at least eight deaths.
Saturday was a bad day for travel in the UK. It was supposed to be the big Bank holiday getaway, but so many people dying made the day a sombre one.
So that was Saturday, which was a strange day. Travelling took a lot out of me, I’m not the best traveller, but the more people there are the more ill I feel so I’ve been taking it easy and haven’t done much reading recently. I’ve got some new an exciting books to read though, which I’ll share with you soon in a Book Haul post. Unfortunately due to my camera dying last week, I’ve been taking pictures of my latest book haul (plus the insides of picture books) with my phone’s camera…which I’m not very good at so apologies in advance for any images that just look wrong or have shadows or something.
This month I’ve neglected my blog a bit, I haven’t posted as many articles or poetry as I’d hoped due to being away a lot but I hope what I did post was still interesting to some and certainly my most popular post of the month was Does Editing in Books Matter? If you haven’t already seen it then take a look and add your views I’d love to know what you think 🙂
The second most popular post is surprising as it’s a review! This is the first time a review has been one of the top 3 most popular posts of a month but here you are, a review for ‘Tell it to the Moon’ by Siobhan Curham.
My last highlight is a poem which I’m so happy it was so popular as it’s a poem I took a lot of time to write and is all about keeping to your true self, your true path no matter how hard it may seem: The Beautiful Path Please check it out if you haven’t already. I hope you like it and it motivates you 🙂
Although those were my popular posts I’d like to shout out my Cats Really do Sell! post which was a bit of silly fun and something I thought anyone who loves cats, or just likes silly clips of cats might enjoy.
So that was my August round-up, of course there was one more post that happened a day or two before August and that was this: A Publisher’s Apology and A Chance to See My Old Blog As the title suggests it was the apology I’d been waiting for from publisher Austin Macauley and yes…a chance to see my old blog – for those of you who don’t know where I came from 😀 😛 !
So what’s planned for this month? I have some books to read, and I’m still trying to catch up with a few books I’ve left behind from old hauls. Apart from that I’ll try to get those articles out. One good thing is that I’ve stuck to the #MondayMotivation post. I’m doing at least one post on the first Monday of each month, and I’ll try to do more when I can.
I don’t want to make too many plans as I’m still a bit online/offline at the moment but I hope to get around to visiting a few blogs I’m still behind with as well as some new ones who have followed me who I haven’t yet visited.
How was your August? Any plans for September and what you might be reading? Please let me know in the comments box below, I love hearing from you 🙂
Have you suffered from anxiety, extreme worry or a feeling of guilt?
Yesterday some things happened and as a result I made my friend feel bad over something really silly. It was nothing I had really done to hurt them. It was a silly mistake over posting the wrongly worded comment which some other people may have taken the wrong way (I say may as I didn’t think it would have been seen as something bad) but my friend thought differently. In an effort to save face my friend deleted some of our communications and whike some of our conversations were deleted, others were private and yet others were left publicly in tact. In the end a lot of our public conversation made no sense. My friend feels terrible and consequently I feel terrible too. Nothing has really happened and my friendship hasn’t been damaged (at least I don’t think it has) so everything will be fine…or will it?
For most people the sadness or any guilt they may feel over what happened wouldn’t affect them long term. But that’s not what traditionally happens with me, or at least not what has happened in the past.
I make it no secret that I have suffered from severe depression and I’d be lying if I still didn’t go into that dark place sometimes. But I also suffer from anxiety and a specific symptom inhabits me that I’ve been fighting for years. It’s an overwhelming feeling of worry, often coming from a feeling of guilt. This guilt is usually unjustified though. It comes from the place in my mind wired to think the worst. ‘I could have done something else. Does that person hate me? I embarrassed myself. Everyone’s going to hate me’. These are some of the thoughts that plague my mind.
Thinking in this way is unhealthy and does nothing but make me feel terrible. Although the guilt everyone feels at some point is natural and a way for us to know we have done something wrong, with some mental health conditions such as anxiety this guilt is accelerated to a level far beyond what it was supposed to be.
For me personally I’ve been through a difficult journey, one I’m still going through if I’m honest. But I have learned techniques, ways to diminish the guilt I naturally feel. I don’t always find it easy but these days I take some time away and find ways to replace the ‘guilty’ thoughts with ones that are more sensible such as ‘I could have done something else. But that person doesn’t hate me. Maybe I embarrassed myself, but nobody will hate me’.
In my own personal situation with my friend, I know there’s no real guilt to be felt and I hope my friend feels the same. It was a silly misunderstanding (at least it could be taken as a misunderstanding. My friend and I don’t have any issue over this ourselves), one that should never have happened, but it’s nothing to feel guilty over.
I decided to write this post as I wanted to share some of the difficulties I face with depression and more importantly anxiety. It’s not easy to suffer from any form of anxiety. Many people dismiss anxiety for nothing more than mere ‘fretting’, but for people who have anxiety disorders, the feelings you have, in this case of guilt, are very real. You are not alone if you feel this way. And it’s okay to have a bad day when you feel terrible, but it’s important to change those negative thoughts into more positive ones, thoughts that can help move you forward rather than stay stuck.
If you feel this way feel free to share your anxiety problems or any other mental health problems you have if you wish. Mental health should be something we can freely talk about, so we can stop the prejudice against it and help anyone who may be suffering to feel supported and not alone.
Have you ever felt extreme worry or guilt? How do you feel about mental health and speaking openly about it? Please let me know I’d love to hear from you.
Celebrating an apology long sought after and you get to see which blog I used to run.
Hello everyone, today I’m in a celebratory mood as I finally received a public apology for the misprint trouble I had with a publisher and I wanted to share the joy with everyone 😀 ! For those that don’t know what happened you can read more details in this post (opens in a new tab) but I’ll give an explanation here.
Before I do that though I will say that in telling you what happened I can’t help but reveal the name of my old blog. It shouldn’t be a big deal (it doesn’t feel like it to me) but it might seem like a big deal to one or two individuals who are following this blog…You see I’m terrible at keeping up with who’s following my blog and I only just properly checked my blog followers today and noticed that two or three names followed my old blog and now this one without knowing it’s me 😮 So I’m sorry if anyone feels weird that I didn’t tell you – I’m just really bad at noticing who my new followers are (plus I’m terrible remembering everyone’s screen names 😮 😦 !)
An apology worth fighting for…
Anyway let’s get to it. This last month I battled to get an apology after a publisher printed my review in their catalogue while crediting another website!
A long while ago the publisher Austin Macauley approached me for a review of their book ‘The Belt Boy’. This book blew me away and I gave it a well deserved 5 star rating despite not being my usual taste in books (it’s a sports autobiography). However the review was a success, gaining masses of views, especially when it was reprinted by two blogs which had asked permission first and linked back to my site Happymeerkatreviews.
That was last year, but this year, in early 2017, I was approached by the publisher of the book. They loved my review so much that they asked to print it in their catalogue which was going to be distributed at the London Book Fair in March. Of course I jumped at the chance and agreed (think of the exposure!) but only on the condition that it was clear that the review had come from my blog with a web address attached.
They agreed but March came and went and I assumed, having not heard from them (they promised to send me a copy of the catalogue if it appeared in there) that my review wasn’t used. No problem I thought, but last month I decided to casually browse their online catalogue (available as a pdf download) and found my review there, word for word – it was definitely my review, but at the bottom it said: Originally review from the42.ie
Now the website mentioned is a very popular (given how many followers there are) sports website in Ireland. I didn’t blame them and I’ve never contacted the website in question. But I did contact the publisher. As I’m sure you can all appreciate, I was very upset and wrote stating so, and questioned whether I should even review for them anymore.
They did apologise in the email, but I wanted more than a personal apology. I wanted a public apology. Plenty of people would have picked up their catalogue at the London Book Fair and might have wanted to find the writer of that review, so I wanted the mistake acknowledged publicly. However the publisher wasn’t keen, not at first. You can read more about the struggle I had in my previous blog post Is Sorry Really the Hardest Word? Does a Blogger Deserve an Apology?
I don’t want to go into details of what happened next, but a lot more conversation continued until finally the publisher agreed to give the apology! They apologised on both Twitter and Facebook last week and although it took longer than I thought it would, they’ve finally admitted their mistake. They’ve also amended the online catalogue so it now shows the right blog and address:
Why was it important to get an apology?
Apart from the fact that it is a violation of copyright law to post something without giving credit to the creator of the work (if those are the conditions of the permission given), I also didn’t want to be seen as plagiarising another website. You see, this other sports website has far more followers than Happymeerkatreviews and if people believed the original review came from there, they might have thought that I had copied the review onto my site – not a good thing at all! So it was important for the mistake to be clearly acknowledged.
Now, if I’m honest I could still be picky about how long it took them to apologise or about how some email conversations went, but I’d rather focus on the future. Should this mistake have happened in the first place? No. Should they have apologised earlier? Yes. But the problem’s been fixed as much as it can and I feel it’s more important to move forward and feel positive than focus on the negative details of what happened (not the way I used to think when I run Happymeerkatreviews – improvement no? 😀 ). Besides, there’s always the option of ranting one day if things turn sour, lol 😛
One message has come out of all of this for me though and it is this:
If you believe something is worth fighting for. Fight for it. – MyPeacockBooks
I’m sure that quote’s been used a hundred times by a hundred different people, but I’m saying it today and I stand by it!
So, there it is! An apology on both Twitter and Facebook (shown below) and now everyone knows what blog I used to run too 😮 I’m thinking of writing up a blog post about why I quit my old blog, a bit of insight into the pitfalls of blogging and what to do if you feel trapped/fed up (no you don’t have to start again like I did! 😛 ) So watch out of for that. Plus I have an amazon related blog post that’s in the middle of being written – something to look forward to as well as more book reviews and stuff including a new book haul!! 🙂
Here are the apologies:
Let me know what you think about what happened, I’d love to hear all opinions so let’s talk. If you’re an old follower of Happymeerkatreviews, I’d love to hear from you too. How do you like the new site, and my new attitude? 🙂
I want to thank you again for everyone who follows this blog and a special thank you for all the support I’ve had through this publisher issue. Your support means a lot to me and I hope you continue to enjoy reading My Peacock Books. Phoenix says thank you too…
A slightly early sum up of July plus what’s planned for next month and why I’ve been away.
Hi everyone! Sorry for my recent absence. Some of you may have noticed I disappeared for the last week or two and have only visited one or two blogs briefly. I didn’t think I was going to be away, a lot of things happening personally plus a lot of packing as I’m moving soon (fingers crossed). I’ve had several things happen both online and offline and it kept me away from the blog but I hope you don’t all think I’m ignoring you 😦 , I just haven’t had the time to blog anything recently, apart from that one blog post for ‘The Upstairs Room’ yesterday. So I thought I’d do my July round up a few days before July ends, to let you know what’s happening now I’m back into blogging and I hope you’ll all want to stick around and read some of these posts.
So, the first BIG news is that problem I’ve been having with a certain publisher who gave credit to someone else for an old review I wrote (on my previous blog) has been resolved! You can read more about the issue here, although I’ll be putting up a new blog post very soon to let you know what happened. Amazingly the post about this issue has been July’s most popular blog post!
I personally loved writing my article Do You Have Ghosts following you? which was inspired by a fellow blogger’s post about those pesky ghost followers that never seem to interact with your blog. I’d recommend it for a bit of a fun read!
A lot of the books I planned to leave reviews for this month got left in the drafts folder on wordpress. I’ve written the posts but needed to add the photos to a lot of picture and colouring books posts and because I wasn’t logged in to WordPress for long enough to do anything they remained in the drafts folder until next month! D’oh! This of course means I have a whole bunch of book reviews I’m going to flood at you this week and next, so I hope you don’t mind that, I know there’s a lot of you who love the picture book reviews so I hope you’ll enjoy them!
I have no idea why I liked these two books so much but something about them touched me, especially the funny pictures in ‘The Greedy Goat’!
I also loved the sci-fi thriller YA Nemesis which had just the right amount suspense and intrigue to really keep me hooked and reading it! I’d recommend it but it’s a bit of a cliffhanger ending, there needs to be another book written and I’m not sure if one is planned yet so I’m crossing my fingers!
I have a lot of things planned for the next month, I’ll hopefully get out all the existing reviews I left behind so will hopefully catch up with all that, plus I am really hoping to be able to write some articles that have been in my head for some time. I want to go further with my What Makes a Book YA/Young Adult Versus Just Adult? which is still my most popular blog post to date – thank you everyone who’s read it! 😀 I’ve got an idea about a couple of Amazon related posts to do with reviews which might interest anyone who uses amazon. I also have some other stuff planned in my head but how much of that will happen depends on how much time I can get to write it all. But of course I’ll be writing about the Publisher issue soon.
I also hope I’ll be able to participate more with you guys in the future. I’ve been thinking about a collaboration (perhaps with lots of other blogs in the future) although I wanted to apologise to the wonderful Bella for not being able to get into it this month – hopefully next month ❤ I might also take part in a book tag post – I’m not usually into Awards and Tags but this one I might do as I think answering the question will be fun! :p
I also hope to write more creative stuff for you. I’m a bit disappointed that a poem I put a lot of heart into – Goodbye Dear Soul – wasn’t really enjoyed by many people this month, but it seems my darker poetry has more fans than the more heartfelt/lighter poems. 😮
And of course lots more reading is planned, though I hope I’m not plagued by any more headaches which made reading in the last two weeks (when I had time) very difficult 😦 .
Thank you to everyone who follows, likes and comments this blog, most importantly thank you to anyone who reads what I write. I really appreciate having you guys reading my work and I look forward to reading yours too 🙂
I almost forgot…One more great thing that happened is this blog has now had 2,000 hits! Okay, so that might not be much to some of you, but I celebrate every little achievement so whooo! And thank you! 😀
Let me know how your July has gone in the comments below. What are you looking forward to in August?
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Are there people following your blog who don’t interact? What are ghost followers and are they worth worrying about?
No this isn’t about literal ghosts but about the blogging kind. I recently read a post by a blogger complaining about ‘Ghost Followers’. What is a Ghost Follower? These are people who follow your blog without liking or commenting on any posts, essentially an invisible follower. The blogger was complaining about the lack of interaction they get from ghost followers and I even read that the blogger felt it necessary to delete those ghost followers from their blog as they were very keen in interactions with other people, something the ghost follower doesn’t do.
This blog post made me think though, would I delete a ghost follower? The answer to me is simple: no. The reason I wouldn’t delete a ghost follower from my blog is because I’ve frequently been a ghost follower myself. So today I thought I’d come up with a list of the types of ghost followers there may be following your blog, based on my own behaviour and that I’ve observed in others. We all would like followers who constantly interact with every post, but in reality it doesn’t always happen, so here are my ideas of the types of ghost followers you may have:
The Late Ghost Follower
Fact is we’re all busy people these days, some more than others. The late ghost will follow your blog but be late in doing so. I’m not always able to keep up with the blogs I follow so I choose to bulk-visit sometimes which means I read a bunch of blog posts from the same blog all in one go. I bulk-visit my wordpress feed too, spending specific days catching up with the content I missed earlier that week/month.
The Busy Ghost Follower
The busy ghost just has too much of their time taken up with other things (realife-family, work, etc.) to visit everyone’s blog religiously. The busy ghost appears similar to the late ghost but the difference is that they don’t always catch up with old blog posts instead just reading on days they can versus days they can’t. Don’t be upset if someone doesn’t like or comment on all your posts. Chances are their lives are just really busy and the busy ghost does their best to follow you when they can.
The Choosy Ghost Follower
These people love to read only some of your posts and ignore others. It’s especially common on blogs with different types of content available like mine. Some followers only choose to read the book posts, others will gravitate to poetry, or articles, or colouring, etc. If a choosy ghost loves to read my book reviews but hates the poetry they’ll ‘ghost’ all the poetry posts until I post another review.
The Logged Out Ghost Follower
As the name suggests these people do read your posts but aren’t always logged in to wordpress to react to them. I sometimes have a few minutes here and there to read a post but I don’t have time to log into my account. Thanks to email notifications I can find new blog posts easily or I might just have a shortcut link to blogs I follow too. Fact is some of your followers may simply be logged out and haven’t got time (or aren’t bothered) to log in to like or comment on something.
The Moody Ghost Follower
This isn’t moody in the bad sense but I sometimes struggle and go through phases of depression where I don’t feel like interacting with anyone so I simply don’t. Or sometimes I don’t even feel like reading your posts yet as I’m not in the right frame of mind. It doesn’t mean I won’t interact at a later date or don’t enjoy your content. I simply don’t feel in the mood to read or comment on something at that moment. Or maybe I don’t feel able to answer a post properly if it’s something I’d like to comment on. Either way the Moody Ghost may just not be in the mood right now.
The Hiding Ghost Follower
Yep, some people might try to hide the fact they are online so they don’t want to interact with anyone’s blog at all as that would give away the fact they are online! I confess I have done this in the past on my old blog sometimes when I was facing difficult questions or interactions on my own blog and basically didn’t want to answer anyone without thinking carefully about what to reply. I didn’t want people to think I was actively ignoring them for liking or commenting on other blog posts so I ‘hid’, pretending I wasn’t really online – the shame! 😮
The I Just Discovered You Ghost Follower
Sometimes someone just discovers your blog but doesn’t have time to read your posts yet so they follow in the hopes of catching up at a later date. They don’t want to lose your blog url among the hundreds of other sites they’ve visited so follow you to remember your site so they can come back and check you out when they have time.
The I Think I Like You Ghost Follower
The sister (or brother) to the I Just Discovered You Ghost Follower, this ghost just found your blog and thinks they’ll like reading your content but isn’t sure yet, so rather than reading back older blog post entries they’d simply like to start following you in the hopes of finding out whether you’re a blogger they’d like to follow.
The Follow Everyone Ghost Follower
This ghost will follow back everyone who follows them and even follow back those that interact with their posts just once. These people will follow you back because they think it’s the right thing to do, or to be nice, but that doesn’t mean they’ll be interested in reading your posts.
The Hateful Ghost Follower
Okay, maybe hateful is a strong word but these people will sometimes choose to follow a blog because they don’t actually like you. It’s unlikely to happen if you don’t post anything that anyone would disagree with or find offensive but sometimes I’ve found the views or some people so crazy and weird that I can’t help but follow them as I’m curious what they’ll say next.
The Can’t Be Bothered Ghost Follower
These are sometimes the sisters (or brothers) to the Hateful Ghost Followers. Rather than dislike you but follow you out of fascination these are people who did follow your blog in the past but for whatever reason don’t care to anymore. Whether that’s because they don’t like you anymore, you angered them with your views, or they simply stopped caring about what content you posted, these ghosts still follow your blog for one reason – they can’t be bothered to un-follow you. As daft and simple as it seems some people will never use the un-follow button, even if they should.
The Copy-Cat Ghost Follower
It’s rare and sometimes flattering but some people will follow a blog to see how it’s done and copy you in a way. These ghosts are often new to bloggerland and can’t help but want to follow in the hopes of copying someone’s style or ideas. This isn’t usually a problem unless they start copying your blog posts too, if they do then there may be a reason to delete them from your follower list, unless you enjoy it of course!
The I Forgot About You Ghost Follower
If you’re not a blogger who posts regularly, say once a week or less then some of your ghost followers could be the I Forgot About You Ghosts. These are people who simply forgot they were following your blog. It’s especially easy to forget if they didn’t know you well to begin with and your one blog post a week gets lost among hundreds of others they follow.
The Please Like Me Ghost Follower
These ghosts are more sinister than their name suggests. They are fellow bloggers who want you to follow them so they follow you. Confusing right? I’ve noticed this happens a lot on twitter but now on WordPress too. WordPress notifies me when someone’s followed my blog, telling me who they are and a link to their blog. This lets me hop on over to their site to see if it’s a blog I’d like to follow myself. Without the notification (and the follow) it’s rare that I’d find this new (to me) blogger’s site. So it’s a clever way these ghosts use to get you to notice them. It’s unlikely that the Please Like Me ghost will ever actually interact with your blog but they sure dowant you to interact with theirs! 😮 😡
So that’s it, my list of your potential ghost followers. What do you think? Have you noticed any of these ghosts following your blog? Are YOU one of these ghosts? Let’s chat I’d love to hear from you 🙂
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